by Suzyn Barron, President of Warwick Valley Humane Society
Did you know, shelters and rescues use Home for Holidays during this holiday season to promote adoptions? Oddly enough, it is actually not the best time to adopt. Think about it? The house dynamic is different these next few weeks than during the rest of the year. There are decorations, sometimes both inside and outside, an outdoor tree is inside with lights and things all over it, and packages ready for wrapping. Some families travel while others have family and neighbors visit. It is a bustling time for most people between work, shopping, cooking, baking, and the rest of real life.
Of course, it depends on the pet that is being adopted. An outgoing, confident, well-socialized pet may be able to handle not only the sights and smells of a new home with new people, but also all of the hullabaloo. Unfortunately, we cannot ask them outright but rather need to take into consideration how much might be too much for them to handle.
Adopting a new pet can be an exciting and rewarding experience and it can be overwhelming and stressful for both the pet and the new owner. Now add in the holidays. The 3-day, 3-week, 3-month rule was developed to help new pet owners navigate the significant transition that accompanies their adoption. Some pets may appear stressed, reserved, and anxious and may not want to eat. This is especially true for cats. It’s essential not to overdo it with your new pet. Respect its boundaries and comfort level and give it some space to get used to its new surroundings. In the first three days, remain calm, patient, and consistent with rules and training to establish trust. Keep them in a quiet, comfortable room with their bed, food, water, and toys. Limit their exposure to other pets, family members, and visitors so they don’t get overwhelmed. This time is called decompression. Not easily done around the holidays.
In the first three weeks new pets are figuring out their environment and adjusting to new lifestyle changes. Their unique personalities may begin to surface along with their preferences and perhaps challenges. It’s “getting to know you” time for both parties. Depending on the pet’s demeanor, begin introducing them to the rest of the house, gradually increasing their exposure to new experiences including walks around the neighborhood for dogs. By this time most should be fully adjusted to their new home and routines. However, no two pets are alike, so some may take longer to adjust than others.
After three months, your pet will have gotten used to your home and will have a proper understanding of what their life with you looks like and you with them.
A consistent schedule establishes a set routine making it easier for all.
By following the 3-3-3 rule, you’re setting your new pet up for success and laying the foundation for a long and happy life together, creating a lasting, loving bond.
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